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To
Activate your Brain - Step 101
“How
to stop negative deeds”
Let’s first start with
an example, suppose a man has met with an accident &
blood is continuously oozing out of his body. You take
him to the hospital. At the hospital, the doctor’s first
duty at that time is to attend to the patient & control
the bleeding & then start other operations.
Similarly in the very beginning, from onwards, you must
stop committing new sins in order to modify your old
sins. Otherwise by the time you modify your old sins,
your new sins will take the place of old sins & you
will never be in a position to improve yourself.
A normal
man meets 100 people (males/females) everyday on an
average & while meeting them his two main deeds are:-
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- Communication
- Actions
How to control both is essential in order to stop
negative deeds.
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After
you learn how to control yourself, you may again
repeat such mistakes, but it does not matter. You
should realize that you are repeatedly doing such
mistakes, as it is beyond your control. Try to control
them again & again to avoid such mistakes & then
soon the day will dawn, when you will find yourself
controlling such mistakes.
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To
Activate your Brain - Step 102
“Communication
& Action “
Due
to the following reasons we communicate/act with the
opposite person, who has come to us as a family member
/ relative / employer / employee & spouse etc. New relationship
Vs. old relationship:-
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OLD RELATIONSHIP (Several past lives)
- To give or take help.
- To give or take revenge.
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NEW RELATIONSHIP (In the present life)
- To give or take help for mutual benefit.
- To fulfill his desire.
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| Explanation: |
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You
will find that in some families, children brighten
the name of their parents & in some families children
take financial or other aids from their uncle or
other relatives. This give & take benefit is the
effect of their old relationship, which they have
developed in their past lives.
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After
a son is born & remain sick permanently & to cure
him, his father used to spend his each & every asset.
That means he has cheated his son in the past lives
& now he is suffering with the reward of his earlier
deed. Similarly after a son is born & as soon as
he is growing, his father is beating & abusing him
daily & son is miserable. That means in the last
life the son might have made his father very miserable
& now he is suffering with the rewards.
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A teacher is teaching you & getting the fees against
his services. So in similar types of actions, where
both are doing deeds for their benefit & both are
not got hurt by each others action. In these cases
there is no God’s punishment.
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Some people approach others to fulfill their desires.
A man working with some person to look after his
family. Suppose after working for some years with
that man if he expose his business secret to outsider
or ditch him in any way where that man got hurt,
punishment is bound to be there.
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In general any where you will do any such Communication/Action
which hurts the opposite person without his mistake,
then you have to face the consequences. Now punishment
depends on the method you prepared to hurt the opposite
person. If it is without any fault or reason of
opposite person & in spite of his co-operation,
you made him miserable then what ever the way he
bear the loss, you will also get the similar punishment
as & when desired by God.
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To
Activate your Brain - Step 103
“ Sources of Communication
& Action “
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Desire to collect information from the person you
met: either information of that person or for others
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Desire to spread such information to others, either
to satisfy your ego or to take revenge in order to
make others miserable.
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Habit of speaking / replying quickly to any question,
raised by the opposite person, without knowing the
pros & cons of your reply.
| Example-1: |
A
husband enquire from his wife about the situation
of downfall came in the life of her brother & in-laws.
The reason to collect such information was to satisfy
himself as under:
a)
He is now more richer than in-laws.
b)
He is more capable that is why he became richer
& his desire was to be on the top position in the
family.
Then after collecting those information, which made
his in-laws weaker, he will spread such information
in the society in order to expose their mistakes
& present situation. By storing such information
in your brain, you are sowing the seeds of bad nature,
resulting which that seed will start growing in
your life & day is very near you will also face
the same situation as your in-laws are suffering.
You think by doing this act you are satisfying your
desire. Do not think. You are digging your grave.
One side you are blocking space of your brain by
storing such information & on the other side these
stored information is developing your character
of bad nature. The more you will store such information
in your brain, the laser space you will find to
keep/store good information.
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| Example-2: |
A
man ask you that whether this train is going to
that particular place (named X), you said yes.
On your reply he caught that train but after reaching
to the last destination after ¾ hours he found
that it was not particular place. Actually his
mother was sick & his presence to reach to her
was very important. But due to your miss-direction
he lost the time & in between his mother expired.
In this case you are developing such dirty nature
that one day you will be also trapped in the same
way by someone else.
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God’s punishment is very clear. The way you will
do, the same way you will also suffer. Only there
will be a gap of time for your punishment & the
person who will punish you will be change. Do not
blame on others & try to improve yourself. There
are several other examples available in this universe,
which indicate that before we communicate, it is
better to control ourselves in order to avoid hurting
others.
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